Resources

Disclaimer: the Sensual Femme is not affiliated with any of these resources, but finds their offerings useful for many femme-identified people. Please do your own research before contracting anyone for services.

Articles, Books & Films About Femmes, Femininity, Sexual & Gender Identity

• “Why Beauty is the Perfect Space to Explore My Gender Identity” article in Allure Magazine
• Lists of tv shows & films with LGBTIQ+ characters here, here and here
• 16 Amazing Queer BIPOC Films You Need To Watch ASAP via Buzzfeed
• The gender binary, compassion and other work of non-binary transfeminine activist Alok Vaid-Menon
• Evolution’s Rainbow by Joan Roughgarden
• Transgender Reading List by PFLAG
• Trans, Nonbinary & GNC Voices to Help You Celebrate Pride by the NY Public Library

Lingerie & Accessories

• Plus-Size Lingerie shopping list via Refinery 29
• Trans Femme Lingerie Buying Guide via The Lingerie Addict
• XDress and HommeMystere are marketed as lingerie made for men, though they may appeal to to a variety of genders

Support Services & Therapy

• Crisis Hotlines for LGBTIQ+ individuals
• Therapist finder via Psychology Today – a database of therapists based in the U.S. *Filter your search to find therapists who are affirming of LGBTIQ+ people
• LGBTQ+ resource list covering a wide spectrum of needs – healthcare, therapy, nutrition, housing, legal, veterans and more. Via Transequality
• National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: linked is their helpful database of kink- and polyamory-aware service professionals (legal, medical, mental health, and more)